5 Easy Ways to Get Pass Her Defenses
In the last e-mail we talked about some very simple ways to impress a woman by taking the road less traveled.
How has it been working out for you so far?
Are you feeling like there is a piece of the puzzle missing? If so, then let's go ahead and get into today's
lesson so you can get the whole picture.
By the way, you might be realizing that you're going to need greater control over your emotions.
Don't worry, we'll be getting around to that in the next email...but for now...
Why Do Women Need Defenses?
You know, I used to think it was puzzling that a woman who was clearly looking for the right man would have her
dukes up. I mean how can you possibly give anyone a chance if you won't let them close enough to find out who you
Picture it this way: how many times are you solicited by businesses to spend money? You have sales people
calling you on the phone, on your television, on the radio, knocking on your door and blowing up your email box.
How could you possibly give your attention, let alone your money, to even half of them?
It's just too much information...so you've probably got to be saying "no thanks" or "not interested" haven't
you? You're doing this so often that most of the time you don't even know what you're not interested in! So how can
you blame a woman who's probably getting approached at least a dozen times a week?
How can you get past her defenses and set yourself apart from all the other men competing for her attention?
Here are five simple things that you can do:
1. Don't Hover
Want to really creep woman out who you want to meet? Hover close to her, glance at her occasionally or even
stare at her. The longer that you do this without approaching her, the more defensive she is going to be. In fact,
you might completely ruin your chances of meeting her before you even open your mouth.
2. Don't go out alone
Take a friend with you when you go out, preferably a female friend. If a woman sees that you have friends it
demonstrates to her that you have some preselected social
value. This sends her the subconscious message that you are at least a halfway normal person.
It also shows her that you have a life and this helps you to know that you won't be one of those clingy, needy
3. Talk to Everyone (not just her)
This is really effective when it comes to getting a woman to lower her defenses. In fact, if you are in a
situation where you can talk to people around her without speaking directly to her, she's eventually going to
"Who is this guy? He's talking to everyone but me... I wonder why." This will show her that you are friendly and
will keep her from thinking that you are talking to her just to hit on her. If you do this the right way, she may
even approach you first.
4. Master the Walk Away
Unless you are in a situation where you will lose the chance to talk to her again, get into the habit of walking
away from the conversation temporarily. This will show that you are not needy and will help her relax. If the
conversation which you start, but don't finish, is interesting enough you might even get her to approach you to
5. Wait on the Introductions
Sometimes it can be a mistake to introduce yourself to the woman right away. After all, what is every other man
doing to get her attention? Probably the old: "Hi I'm___, what's your name?" Much like the walk away, this will
demonstrate to her that you are not needy and will bring her defenses down.
As simple as these may sound, you might be surprised at the difference they make.
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