7 Tips for Mastering Speed Dating
Have you ever thought about trying speed dating? It's a great way to meet a lot of women really fast and to
increase your options...not to mention that it's a powerful way to learn about how women are thinking when it comes to
But if you've never used speed dating before, it can be pretty intimidating. These seven tips will help you to
master speed dating and to get the most benefit out of it.
#7 Have a Plan
You know, most people never get what they want out of their dating life if they don't know what they want in the
first place. Go in with a specific set of standards which will help you to screen out potential women who you want
to meet again.
If you have this, you'll come off as confident and decisive, which women find attractive. It will help you to
target your questions and find out what you really need to know about the woman you're meeting.
#6 Expect to Win
Go into the event expecting to get positive results, this will serve two purposes: it will help you to come off
as more confident and positive and it will make you more likely to get positive results.
An interesting thing happens when you know exactly what you want and you expect to get it...you usually get it.
So take some time to mentally prepare yourself for the event and go in expecting a positive result.
#5 Don't Make Attachments too Soon
If you're going to a speed dating event, make the most of it by keeping an open mind about who you might meet
next... even if you meet someone really spectacular at the start. Keep your options open and don't get your heart
set on one particular women.
If you do, you might end up missing out on other opportunities because you've already put all your eggs in one
#4 Don't Fear the List
Since you've already determined what you want at this time, go ahead and make a list of important questions to
ask. Just make sure that you ask a few fun questions as to not come off too serious or businesslike.
Don't worry about memorizing the questions, it's completely normal for other people at the event to have a
list...so it's okay for you too.
#3 Dress for Success
When it comes to first impressions, appearances definitely matter and every one judges a book by its cover to
some degree. So take some time to pick out clothes that compliment your personality and which help you to feel
confident and attractive.
This will make a world of difference in the impression you create.
#2 Be Present
Women can tell instantly when a man is distracted and not present in the moment, so it's important for you to be
present with whoever you're speaking too. Be a good listener and pay attention to things like body language and
You can often tell a great deal about someone by these things if you're present and really paying attention. Not
to mention that most people are "listening challenged," especially when they are in a hurry.
#1 Have Fun
This is very important... don't take the event too seriously as that will just make you appear nervous and not
confident. Remember, your life is here and now...it's the only time that you can live in, so make the most of it
and have a good time.
Even the women who you're not interested in, find something interesting about them and have fun... even if you
don't think you'll see them again.
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