Do Bad Guys Always Get the Girl?
What exactly is a bad boy? A bad boy is outside the box; rough around the edges and potentially dark in
He is macho, bold, unencumbered by “normal” life. He generally is often in trouble, rebels against authority and
doesn’t seem to be concerned with fitting in.
Hollywood glamorizes the bad boy concept with sexy, mysterious men who are hard to figure out and alluring. So,
the question every man wants to know remains; do bad guys always get the girl?
This is a long held debate but the consensus is yes and no. In other words, yes, bad boys get the girl but
generally they can’t keep them.
What is the Attraction?
What is attractive about a bad boy is not their inherent “badness” but rather a strong showing of self
confidence. Whether this is feigned or real; a woman will initially be attracted to a dominant male figure. His
decisiveness, his lack of fear and his rebellious attitude is mysterious and draws her into a world which initially
seems exciting and spontaneous. This is why bad guys
can get away with also anything.
The Nature of Women
Women by nature are preprogrammed to seek a male counterpart who will protect and keep her safe. These days
especially, fewer women look for successful men who will provide for them since women are now capable of their own
Due to this mentality, females naturally gravitate toward the courageous, fearless bad boy aspects rather than
the typical, responsible characteristics of previous generations. That being said, there have always been
exceptions, even in the past.
Think of the famous musical, Greece. It is a perfect example of good girl falls for bad boy. Females are
mysterious, complex creatures and sometimes they seek out equally complicated counterparts, regardless of whether
it is healthy or ideal.
The Domestication Challenge
One true fact about women is they love a challenge! What can be more challenging than a guy in need of nurture,
taming and domestication? Women live for the idea of saving the angry beast from himself and teaching him of love
When the question arises; do bad guys always get the girl, the irony is more often than not they do but then are
magically transformed into a good guy. If of course the tamer is good at what she does.
The thing most guys don’t realize is how beneficial women are toward maintaining a civilized and well rounded
society. Imagine if every guy remained a bad boy forever. The Peter Pan epidemic would certainly create a chaotic
and radical world.
Bad Boys Lose in the End
Ultimately, most bad guys are nothing more than boys with grand facades who have not grown up enough to
experience love, intimacy and trust as a priority. Spiritually they are repressed as they do not hold regard for a
collective and productive community. In spite of Hollywood, there isn’t much glamour in the everyday bad boy.
Generally he is lonely and tired of feigned bravado. Most relationships with bad boys end as quickly as they
begin. Once a woman realizes she cannot break through the self destructive walls which protect a cowardly persona
she will leave seeking solace in the arms of someone warm, real and mature.
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