Here's Why Most Guys Get Shot Down...
There are specific steps you need to follow if you want to maximize your chances of reconciliation. Don't leave
it to trial and error. This may be your last shot, so do it right...
Have you ever had that moment when you could feel the "let down" coming from a women, even before it came? If
so, have you ever stopped to think about what was actually causing that to happen?
Believe it or not, you're actually closer to understanding it than you think...after all, if you can feel it
coming before it comes, you're at least vaguely aware that something is off.
But what? How is it that you can meet a woman who you seem to have EVERYTHING in common with...and yet she "only
sees you as a friend?"
Let's look at the three problems areas, so that you'll never have to feel the disappointment of the "let down"
Mistake #1 Waiting too Long to Make a Move
You know, timing is a lot more important to women than it is to men. If you wait too long to make a move on a
woman (even if she originally was interested) you'll reach a "point of no return" where you'll almost certainly
never get another chance.
Why is this? Well, unfortunately this is something which has been programmed into women's minds by romantic
movies where the man sweeps in at the PERFECT moment and carries the woman off into the sunset.
For men, we're more opportunists than women are and we're less concerned about when and where something happens.
For us, it's all about the effective and nothing else. But women have a completely different set of expectations
when it comes to meeting the "right" person.
Most of them time, the primary time for making a move (asking her out, asking for her phone number) is a small
window of opportunity which comes sooner rather than later.
TIP: Women are attracted to men who demonstrate firmness and promptness of decision. The next time that you have
an intuitive nudge from within that you should make a move on a woman, don't hesistate.
Mistake #2 Too Much Information
No matter how intelligent and insightful a person is, just about everyone is premature in making judgments about
people. For example, when a single woman first meets a man, she begins sizing him up to determine whether or not he
is dateable. The more information that you give her, the quicker she thinks she knows what he's all about.
Now let's face it, all of us have imperfections and most of the time we're better off showing our good points
and getting someone "hooked" before they have a reason to write us off. This is especially true when it comes to
getting women interested.
If you reveal too much too soon, you might just reveal something that kills off her interest before she really
understands your good points.
TIP: Curiosity and mystery are attractive to a woman. The next time you meet a woman, make it a point to hold at
least one piece of information that she asks for back from her. Tell her, that you'll "talk about it next time you
Mistake #3 Being Too Nice
Okay, you don't have to be rude to a woman when you meet her...but let's think about this: if you meet someone
who is being really, really nice to you... aren't you going to be suspicious about their motives? One of the
biggest mistakes that "nice guys" make is thinking that they are actually being nice to a woman by going overboard
to do things for her.
This is not being nice, it's manipulation. You're out to get something from her... you know that, I know that,
and she knows that. Now there's nothing wrong with wanting something from her. But if you make it too obvious too
soon... you'll lose her trust and her interest along with it.
It's the same when you meet up with your ex again as you try to make sense of what happened in your
relationship. Sometimes we break up for the dumbest reasons, which is why if you are contemplating getting back together with your ex, you need a structured and
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