How to Develop an Amazing Sense of Humor... FAST
A while back we covered the topic of humor and how important it is for creating attraction. How have you
been doing with that so far?
No matter how good you are doing already, it's hardly possible to be too skilled when it comes to your senses of
In fact, you've probably noticed that people who are funny can get away with a lot of things that most of us
just can't. You also might have noticed that since of humor is one of the most important qualities which a woman
looks for in a man.
So let's get into some practical strategies which you can use to build an amazing sense of humor...and fast.
First, Become a Humor Consumer
Have you ever learnt a foreign language? If so, you probably already know that the best way to become fluent is
to immerse yourself in the culture which speaks that language. The same is sure in relation to developing an
amazing sense of humor.
How many hours a week do you spend listening to comedians? I'm not talking about reading the joke books. You've
probably found that funny people have the ability to say things and make people laugh, while another person might
say the same thing and no one laughs.
This is because about 90% of our communication is nonverbal, and you just can't get the full effect from reading
A good comedian can use voice inflections, body language, timing and many other subtle forms of communication to
turn a normal joke into a real side splitter.
So the first thing you need to do if you want to develop a great sense of humor and learn to make women laugh is to immerse yourself in some good
TIP: Set aside some time on your schedule to find some good standup acts on youtube and watch them. Don't
multitask as you do this. Instead, commit your full to how the comedian is creating humor using tone of voice,
timing and body.
Second, Write a Few of Your Own Jokes
Okay, don't get intimidated by this tip. This is not as hard as it sounds, because your jokes don't even have to
be funny to anybody else but you. Why is this? Because chances are, if you find something funny, people who think
like you are also going to find it funny.
By writing your own jokes, you'll begin to understand your own sense of humor better and believe it or not,
you'll actually start to develop your own sense of humor.
It's common for most people to look at an expert artist such as a comedian and assume that their ability to make
people laugh is natural and effortless. In reality, what you are looking at is the result of many long hard hours
of practice and rehearsing.
Even after all this, many comedians also have to test their material before small audiences before they actually
present it to large audiences. It's silly to assume that they can actually be that funny 100% of the time... it
TIP: If you're having a hard time writing your own jokes, look up a few that you like on the Internet and
practice making modifications of them. After a while, start to get the idea of how humor works. Call out the
Did you know that most comedians simply call things what they really are and people laugh about it? Why is this?
Because there are many ridiculous things in life which we just assumed to be normal, when in reality they are
For a good example of this kind of humor, check out a few comedians like Mitch Hedburg and Dimitri Martin. Most
of these guys routines consist of "observational humor" which is based on calling things what they are.
The more that you listen to these kinds of comedians, the more you will start noticing ridiculous things in your
environment and the easier it will be for you to laugh at them and to get others to laugh with you.
Before we go, I mentioned earlier about Mind Movies. These are great, and should be a part of your daily routine
if you are a go-getter. A few minutes a day is all that sits between you and your dreams:
Okay, now you might remember that we talked about women's addiction to drama in another email....but there's
something else you have to know about why women are addicted to drama... more of this in the next email.