How to Expand Your Social Circle
In case you weren't aware, the size of your dating life is often equally proportionate to the size of your
If you know how to meet women and places to meet women who are single, chances are you will have more
success in your dating life.
Not only does it add to your perceived social value if you have a lot of friends, it also give you a stronger
supply of options when it comes to connecting with datable woman.
Just ask any couple that you know how they met, and I bet they connected through a mutual friend. Not to mention
that most women are more open to dating someone who they know something about than they are to dating a stranger
who approached them in public.
But how do you build a stronger social circle and meet new people? Here are a few simple and effective
strategies that you can start to use right away...
First, Start With Who You Already Know
Before you start trying to make new connections, work on strengthening your current ones. It's usually a lot
easier and more effective to build your social circle from the inside out, instead of trying to bring people in
from the outside.
Here are a few tips that will make this easier:
* Make some introductions
Are there people who you already know who don't know one another? Invite them both out and introduce them. Do
this as much as you can and you'll eventually start to build the reputation of being a connector, which is of great
* Know What's Happening
Have you ever known someone who always seems to know what everyone else is doing? This is the
person who you can call and invite somewhere and you ask them: "Hey, what's __ up to tonight?" and they know. Be
Make a list of your friends and get into the habit of just asking: "What you got planned for this weekend?" Even
if you aren't planning on inviting them somewhere, do it anyway. Building this awareness will give you a stronger
influence within your circle.
* Plan Group Outings
This is the fastest and more powerful way to expand your social circle. Get into the habit of making plans once
a month for group outings and invite your friends. They will probably invite other friends, and you'll probably
meet others while you're out. When this starts to happen it's crucial that you talk to everyone and be the one who
introduces the people who don't know one another.
Get phone numbers and emails and stay in touch with the new people using the above strategies. Do this right,
and you'll grow a robust social circle without even using these next few techniques.
But in case you're really serious about your dating life...
Reach Out to New People
Let's be honest, you probably already know how to do this...it's just a matter of getting off your butt. Start
talking to people and making connections that you can follow up on. Getting people's email is easy these days, and
all you have to do is ask when you have a good conversation with someone.
If you think you need a reason to ask (which is best actually), tell them about one of the group outings that
you're planning and tell them you'll send details in case they're interested. You can also tell them that you found
a really cool website about something that you were talking about, but that you can't remember the name of it.
Even if you don't know of a site, you can probably find one if you look. Do this and use the previous three
strategies, and with some patience and consistency, your social circle will start to expand.
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Now, in case you've been wondering about where you can meet women and are out of ideas, we'll be looking at some
proven places in the next email.