How to Gain Confidence to Talk to Women
While a lot of men seem to be smooth talkers, many of them continue to cower and instead act like idiots when
talking with women.
A common reason why they tend to do so is that they have no idea how to approach a woman and what to talk
If you are one of these men who have such problem areas then do not retreat and never surrender. Do not put your
other great aspects to waste – good listener, good conversationalist or good sense of humor – because you are
scared to approach a woman and talk to them.
Try to overcome this fear and use the following online dating
tips to gain your confidence to talk to women.
1) Be comfortable with yourself
The first thing that could hold back any man (even women) from talking with the opposite sex is the lack of self
confidence. Before trying to get affirmation from other people, it is very important that you are able to regard
yourself highly although not too much.
When one is uncomfortable about themselves, it will show in the conversation and a woman will be able to sense a
man’s insecurities right away. Make sure that you have developed enough pride and self-worth in order to gain the
confidence to talk to women.
2) Keep it friendly and casual
Another reason why a man would not have the courage to talk to women is that there is always that pressure on
keeping the conversation flowing. To keep the jitters off, it may be best to pretend that you are simply talking
with a female friend whom you have not seen for a very long time.
Keep things light and casual and do not forget to use your sense of humor and share some laughter. Loosen up
instead of pressuring yourself to make sure the conversation does not end abruptly.
3) Be knowledgeable
Men are naturally able to exude more confidence when he believes that he has a higher level of intellect than
that of the other person. It is definitely recommended that a man possess knowledge on various things as it could
definitely help build one’s confidence.
Being knowledgeable on many aspects could also help attract a woman without having to exert too much effort in
keeping conversation. While confidence is a commodity when talking to women, overconfidence may also shoo her
away, so use it wisely.
4) Let the conversation flow
Not having the confidence to talk to women is primarily because a man does not know what to talk about during
the conversation. A man may have to be talking about 90 percent of the time as the woman will most often be caught
off guard and will have to take some time to get into conversational mode.
In order to keep the conversation flowing, it is
suggested to ask about hobbies, interests and such to see if the two of you share anything in common. Once the
woman starts talking, it is already time for the man to become the listener. Men who talk too much about themselves
often annoy women.
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