How to Get Her into Bed
How hard is it to get a woman into bed? I'll tell you what, if it's easy for you then you can probably make a
living teaching men how to do this.
This is because the skill of getting a woman into bed is rarer than the skill of making money...or any other
skill men strive to master. So how can you develop this very enviable skill?
Here are a few basics...
Don't "Ask for Her Help"
Seriously, would you, in your right mind, say to a woman: "How about we go back to my place and have sex?" It
might work sometimes, but it's going to blow up in your face more often. But did you know that men actually "say"
this all the time without saying it directly?
Here are some examples:
- "How about we go back to my place and watch TV?"
- "How about we go back to my place and have a drink?"
- "How about we go back to my place and I'll show you my DVD collection?"
- "How about we go back to my place and you can meet my dog?"
Just take out the end of these statements and insert "Have sex." That's exactly what she's hearing. Even if a
woman WANTS to have sex, she doesn't want to help you get her to bed. Women are funny about wanting things to be
spontaneous and romantic. If you want to seduce a woman, the first thing you
have to do is accept that they want you to actually "fool" them into coming home.
How many times have you heard a woman say: "I don't know, it just kind of happened..." when it comes to sleeping
with a man? So how can you make it "just happen?"
Begin with the End in Mind
Start out the date by meeting her at your place. Have her park her car there and take her out in your car. This
way, you'll HAVE to take her back to your place just to "get her car." Once you're there, you can invite her in
"for a quick tour of the house" or "a quick drink." She'll have less time to talk herself out of it and it will
seem more "natural."
Of course, then there's always the question about leading her to the point where she wants to sleep with
Lure Her, Don't Chase Her
Okay, this is the secret to getting a woman to initiate sex with you: tease her. Instead of going to the kiss
right away, give her a hug and a quick kiss on the head. Make subtle remarks that might or might not mean you're
interested. Instead of going for sex on the first date, hold
back a little.
Hold off on the compliments, but give her a few teasing little touches to keep her wondering if you think she's
attractive or not.
When you kiss her, and she offers to tongue kiss, give her just a little and end the kiss first. End all of your
phone conversations first, and end all your dates first. No matter what, always be the first one to pull back. This
is the opposite of what she's used to, and it will make her start to wonder if you're attracted to her.
The more that you tease her and the more you pull back first, the more she'll want and the less she'll be able
to control herself. Eventually, she'll initiate touch with you just to end the tension, keep teasing her until you
can feel that she's ready to get down to business...trust me, you'll know.
This is not only the secret to getting a woman into bed, it's one of the keys to keeping her interested. We'll
be covering this in more detail in the next email.
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