How to Tell Captivating Stories to Women
Have you ever studied any of the literature about the men who were great leaders in history? These are men who
were highly respected then and passionately loved by women.
Did you know that there is one character trait which all of these men had in common? They were all tremendous
Whether they were using stories to teach, to motivate, to inspire, to scare or to entertain, these great
storytellers use their skills to captivate the love and attention of all people.
Can you imagine what this kind of skill could do for you in your dating life? If so, you are about to learn the
basics of telling a captivating story...
First, Make it Believable
Even if you are telling a story that is fictional, it has to have a degree of believability in order to
captivate the attention of people. Even the greatest fantasy and fiction writers know how to create stories which
are somewhat rooted in truth.
The best way to accomplish this is to make the characters of your story believable. If you're telling a woman a
story about something that you and a friend of yours did in high school, maybe something crazy and daring and
exciting, remember to set the scene by telling her a little about what your friend was like.
This will give her a clear picture of the character and help the story to come to life. Making a story
believable also requires you to demonstrate enthusiasm as you are telling it. This means using body language, voice
inflection and excitement as you are telling the story.
Second, Give it Passion
One of the most passionate and persuasive storytellers in history was Napoleon Bonaparte. Napoleon would spend
hours while he was alone practicing the art of using emotion and inflection in his voice. It's probably not a
coincidence that this man was one of the most capable military leaders in history because of his ability to speak
with authentic emotion in his voice.
TIP: Pick a simple story that you know well and can tell without having to think too much, and practice telling
it with a lot of emotion in your voice and body language. Practice this in front of the mirror until you become
comfortable with telling the story with the emotion.
Third, Use it to Communicate Your Value
Okay, this is where you get to brag about yourself, but you have to make sure that the "bragging" is told in
subtle clues throughout your story. For example, there are four character traits which will communicate to a woman that you are a man of high value:
* Being a leader of men
* Being a defender of those you love
* Being passionate about what you believe
* Being a man of action
Can you remember a particular story of your past when you lead or inspired someone... maybe more than one
person? What about a story where you defended someone you love or took a stand for something that were passionate
Is there an example that you can give her which will seem like just an innocent and entertaining story but which
at the same time will communicate a subtle message that you are a man of high value? If so, this is the story that
you need to practice telling with excitement and enthusiasm.
Make sure that you give her a little background about the characters involved so that the story is believable
and so that she can get a clear picture of how the story unfolded.
TIP: If you are having trouble thinking of a story which portrays you as a leader of men, a defender of loved
ones and a man of passion and action, just ask some friends of yours or family members. Do this as soon as you stop
reading this e-mail, and commit some time to practicing this story.
She will be eating out of your hand, and closing the deal will seem effortless. It's about knowing what she's
looking for in a man and making sure that you fill that list!
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In the next email, we will be looking at one of the most crucial parts of meeting and interacting with women:
the six point first impression checklist...miss any one of these and your first impression just might be your