How to Handle Rejections From Women
Guys, you know the feeling. The one where you have worked yourself up to be the greatest thing since sliced
You’ve spruced up, donned the new outfit, ventured out with flags flying high and then comes the moment; you
check yourself in the mirror one more time to make sure there’s nothing in your teeth.
You approach her with perfect masculine form, smile your most charming smile, open your mouth to say something
witty and SLAM she shuts you down!
It’s an awful feeling; rejection. The thing is, it happens to every guy and doesn’t have to be the end of the
world. So, before you deflate like a withered balloon or scurry off to spend another month in World Of Warcraft
hiding, let’s discuss how to handle rejections from women.
Dating is a numbers game
Look at it this way; dating is strictly a numbers game. You have to work with the law of averages which dictates
the more girls you approach; the more likely you are to get your yes. Take it from a salesman who goes door to
He’s not selling a product; any good salesman knows he is selling himself. Salesmen adapt a keen positive
attitude in order to handle the No’s they receive on their way to the Yes’s. All they do is reexamine their pitch
and keep going.
Don’t take it personal
Another way to handle rejecting from women is to remember she is not rejecting you as an individual, she is
simply saying she’s not interested at the moment or she just didn’t like your approach.
Guys always assume there must be something wrong with whom they are. On the contrary, she just wasn’t into the
vibe right then. It’s not personal. From your perspective consider it a blessing each time a girl says no. That
just means the one who says yes was the right one!
Be super charming anyway
If you handle rejection with a suave, confident, charming demeanor you will find yourself feeling better about
the whole situation. By showing a woman you can handle the no with ease will make her take a second look at what
you are all about. Still be kind and still be a gentleman.
Otherwise you are acting like a pouting child and will not be attractive to her or anyone else for that matter.
Who cares if she turned you down? There are hundreds of fish in the sea and one of them is just for you. Que Sera
To get over this, look at it from a strategic perspective. You can analyze your presentation, perfect it and do
a little research on tactics to get better at dating women.
There’s no need to cry about it or give up. Losing your confidence will only limit your ability to perform next
time. What if next time is the soul mate of your dreams?
Just as you wouldn’t let a failed job interview deter you from job hunting, you should never allow a woman to
keep you from pursuing your romantic endeavors. Keep quote below in mind next time you are trying to figure out how
to handle rejections from women.
“In its purest form, dating is auditioning for mating (and auditioning means we may or may not get the part.) –
Joy Brown, Dating for Dummies
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