Three Ways to be More Masculine
Okay, there's no need to worry.
There's no shame in reading something about how to be more masculine. Most "men" these days really aren't acting
like men and never bother to learn how to become men.
Why is this? Because too many of us assume that we're men because our bodies have grown all big and hairy.
Okay, good start. But being genuinely masculine (in the way that will drive women crazy), requires a change in
more than just your body.
This is a change that more and more men these days are missing out on completely. This is great for guys like
you who have the guts to learn what you're about to learn - it means increasing your options for attracting amazing women into your life.
Let's start with the most important way to be more masculine.
Masculine Trait #1: Decisiveness
Men who have the power to reach quick and definite decisions seldom find themselves in positions of weakness or
submission. Think about it, the majority of people have trouble making decisions and fall into the habit of
indecision...also known as procrastination.
Procrastinators are never in positions of power and authority, and power is the very thing which makes a man
appear masculine. The longer you put something off, the more room you leave for a more decisive and dominant male
to take charge, and they will. Since most people have a hard time making decisions, they will choose to follow the
man who is firm and quick in his decision making.
Just think about all of the great leaders of history and the level of attraction many of them were able to
achieve with women. All of them were firm decision makers, and inspired people to follow them because of it. If you
want to become more masculine, firmness of decision is the best place to start...
Masculine Trait #2: Self-Reliance
Do you depend on other people to take care of things that you should be responsible for? Do you sometimes
default the choices of where to go and what to do to your woman? If so, you can bet that you aren't communicating
your masculine dominance. And if you aren't doing that, you are never going to meet a woman's need for safety.
Translation, more trips to the dreaded friend's zone while the decisive and self-reliant men scoop up all the
qualified women. After you get done with this email, sit down and make a list of all the areas in your life where
you're handing responsibility over to someone else. Then, take control and start building self-reliance.
This might include putting your foot down when it comes to being dominated by women. In spite of what you might
think, this is actually what women want. They only attempt to dominate a man to test his masculinity and find out
if he's man enough to be her leader and defender.
Masculine Trait #3: Honesty in Actions
There's so much talk these days about telling the truth with words, but not nearly enough talk about telling the
truth in your actions. What does this mean? It means backing your words up with actions. When you say that you're
going to do something, do it...or else don't make the commitment. When you commit to be somewhere or to call
someone, follow through.
If you say that you want to get in shape, start taking control of your financial life or your career... do
In fact, whenever possible it's better to keep your mouth shut and tell the truth ONLY in actions. Believe me,
people will take notice....especially women. Men who tell the truth in their actions communicate a powerful
confidence and masculinity which is irresistible to men and women alike.
This is the stuff that leaders are made of, and you can bet that women go crazy over men who are natural leaders
Write these three things down, put them on your refrigerator and make a lifetime commitment to getting them in
order. You'll be glad you did.
Now on a lighter note, we're going to look at some funny ways to start conversations with women in the next
email. Once you learn to mix humor with masculinity, you'll become irresistible to women...stay tuned.
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